“Why don’t you tell me that ‘if the girl had been worth having, she’d have waited for you’? No, sir, the girl really worth having won’t wait for anybody.”
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from This Side of Paradise, F. Scott Fitzgerald. (via fabula)
I like this, even though I don’t really care what a girl’s sexual (or non-sexual) behavior is like, so long as it’s her choice to make.
(Source: thecoolofnight)
“Fashion is one of the very few forms of expression in which women have more freedom than men. And I don’t think it’s an accident that it’s typically seen as shallow, trivial, and vain. It is the height of irony that women are valued for our looks, encouraged to make ourselves beautiful and ornamental… and are then derided as shallow and vain for doing so. And it’s a subtle but definite form of sexism to take one of the few forms of expression where women have more freedom, and treat it as a form of expression that’s inherently superficial and trivial. Like it or not, fashion and style are primarily a women’s art form. And I think it gets treated as trivial because women get treated as trivial.”
“I have this strange feeling that I’m not myself anymore. It’s hard to put into words, but I guess it’s like I was fast asleep, and someone came, disassembled me, and hurriedly put me back together again. That sort of feeling.”
— Sputnik Sweetheart, by Haruki Murakami.
“And the worst kind of loneliness is feeling alone when we are with someone to whom we want to feel close.”
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Page 251 in Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America, Seventh Edition.
Studying for my psychology exam (which is tomorrow [tomorrow]) can be a bit depressing with this textbook.
“I don’t like to think. I’m not a thinking person. I just do things.”
— Guy in my Socio class complaining to his buddy about how much thinking his Philosophy class requires.
“If a woman should be forced to see a sonogram of her unborn fetus before an abortion, shouldn’t military decision-makers be forced to visit the civilians they bomb?”
— Usuallyskeptical (via thermaldetonator)
“I know older men in comedy who can barely feed and clean themselves, and they still work. The women, though, they’re all “crazy.” I have a suspicion - and hear me out, because this is a rough one - that the definition of “crazy” in show business is a woman who keeps talking even after no one wants to fuck her anymore.”
— Tina Fey in this week’s New Yorker. (via djjazzystef)
(Source: fatmanatee)
“I think we can all recognize that the “it’s a joke excuse” is the most dismissive, self-righteous loophole, created by those who refuse to examine their power, and assume they have not only the right to say whatever they want to people, but the right to control how other people react to what they have said.”
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Loose Talk: You can take your “just joking” and shove it.
Posting this again in light of Penny Arcade’s Dickwolves Debacle.
“You are constantly told in depression that your judgment is compromised, but a part of depression is that it touches cognition. That you are having a breakdown does not mean that your life isn’t a mess. If there are issues you have successfully skirted or avoided for years, they come cropping back up and stare you full in the face, and one aspect of depression is a deep knowledge that the comforting doctors who assure you that your judgment is bad are wrong. You are in touch with the real terribleness of your life. You can accept rationally that later, after the medication sets in, you will be better able to deal with the terribleness, but you will not be free of it. When you are depressed, the past and future are absorbed entirely by the present moment, as in the world of a three-year-old. You cannot remember a time when you felt better, at least not clearly; and you certainly cannot imagine a future time when you will feel better.”
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Andrew Solomon, The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression (via psychotherapy)
Yes.
(via thisbodysfabric)

